A good woman is few and far. I don't think men understand that. If a good woman is standing right there why the desire to look elsewhere. Invest in that time. A man should only be alone if he is trying to change for the better and is completely closed off.
I agree. A good woman is also flawed though. Good women waste great men, and likewise the converse. I think people have to know what they can responsibly handle.
People ask for things they cant manage, and then get surprised when things fail. Know your limits. Dont waste time. Show up, or dont.